Girls Need to Be Financially Independent

Just a random midnight thought.

In my opinion, it is very important for girls to be financially independent so that they won't see guys based ONLY on his wealth.

Bukan berarti saya mocking mereka yg mencari financially stable man. Just, girls please, jangan hanya hal itu yg kalian ukur. You girls deserve more than that.

Because, girls, marriage is much more than having a dashing house and fancy car together. Marriage is about building a better future for the next generation, and how both of you make a great impact on people's lives, together. It is also about how being with each other can make both of you closer to God.

If wealth is the only parameter, it only solves one problem. Tapi, bagaimana dengan keimanannya? Dengan sikap dia terhadap orang tuanya? Bagaimana dengan wawasannya? Dengan prioritasnya dalam hidup?

Banyak hal yg harus dipertimbangkan ketika kita memilih seseorang yg akan menjadi imam kita kelak, teman2. Sehingga, jangan sampai kita membatasi pertimbangan kita dengan sebatas wealth.

Terus, bagaimana caranya kita bisa mengurangi pemikiran seperti itu? Salah satu cara yg paling efektif adalah dengan menjadi financially independent, teman2. Sehingga perspektif kita pun akan menjadi lebih luas.

Akan lebih indah bukan jika kalian berdua sama-sama berjuang dalam segala hal? Agar segala impian kalian dapat diraih dengan cara yang lebih baik.

Every girl is very precious. Don't ever settle for money only, yaa. Settle for somebody who makes you become a better person and keep you closer to God. :)

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